I witnessed a miracle, the quiet and hardly noticed kind of miracle I see from time to time that reminds me we are so much more than we make ourselves out to be.
I watched the genuine smile and joy of a young autistic woman of barely 19 years as the kind and giving souls at First Choice Haircutters (Fruit Union Plaza) did her hair and makeup at no charge, but the miracle was just beginning.
Despite a well-meaning system, this young autistic woman has done what a precious few believed she could do — to not only learn to speak, but to experience that once in a lifetime event that acts as both signpost and doorway to our adult futures – graduation from high school.
It is easy to forget or look down in some way on those less fortunate than ourselves; as lost as we can be in our own “suffering” over finances, possessions, and accumulating stress.
We forget the magnificent souls who stand often silent and unseen reminding us of how privileged we truly are.
These people are reminders that we should live a life of gratitude.
Gratitude for being born into a world of plenty when so many have little, gratitude for a sound mind and the ability to speak and be understood, gratitude that we have healthy bodies and opportunity where others have neither.
In the short time I have known her, this young woman is more open and genuine than many I have met; more honest in her feelings, and able to communicate with a clarity words rarely offer.
I wish you a wonderful future, my young autistic friend and teacher.
You are beautiful, special and perfect just as you are.
I wish that your life be filled with helping hands as those fantastic young women at First Choice, who rearranged their schedules and made sacrifices to accommodate freely and with shared joy.
Most of all, I wish you a world where we see your abilities despite your disability, your creativity and clarity despite your lack of proper speech, and your right to experience the fullness of life we should all share in.
Sean Rogders
Vernon
