Connor McDavid has played for five coaches in his nine NHL seasons.
He’s watched four walk out the door.
“It’s very hard,” the Edmonton Oilers captain said of a bench boss getting fired. “Professional sports, people sometimes forget the human side of it. There’s a relationship there.
“These are people with families and it’s hard.”
It’s also a part of the high-stakes game.
But how does the relationship change between a player, especially one in the leadership group like McDavid, who experienced Jay Woodcroft’s dismissal last month after a disastrous start to the season, and a former coach when the dust settles?
These are people often in communication — meetings, calls, texts — on a daily basis in search of the right formula for success. Then all of a sudden, one is not longer around.
The St. Louis Blues were the third team to make a coaching change this season when they fired Craig Berube, who led the team to its 2019 Stanley Cup victory, on Tuesday night.
New York Rangers captain Jacob Trouba said those types of connections don’t just evaporate.
“You care about the guy, he cares about you … it’s over like that,” said Trouba, who waved goodbye to Gerard Gallant when he was handed his pink slip in May. “You call him and wish him well. I still talk to former coaches.”
He added there’s a lot more than just a working relationship in many instances.
“You build friendships in a way,” Trouba said. “We go through a lot ups and downs. Going to the conference final with (Gallant in 2022), we have a lot of great memories. He’s not someone out of your life and gone forever.
“He was the coach when I was named captain. I’ll always remember these things and it will always be a part of my career. That’s not something you just push out the door and forget about.”
That can also go for general managers.
Kyle Dubas, who was fired as general manager by the Maple Leafs in May, was instrumental in bringing John Tavares home to Toronto in free agency.
And it was on his watch Tavares became captain.
“We exchanged messages when the change happened,” said the player. “But definitely hard to put it all into context in just a few words. It’s a lot to take in … usually some time passes.”
Dubas was a hands-on executive. He was there when Tavares suffered a gruesome injury in the 2021 playoffs, and kept his family up-to-date in those anxious moments after he was stretchered off the ice.
“There’s always going to be a strong relationship between him and myself and other guys he had a big influence on,” Tavares said. “As time goes on, there’s more appreciation, more understanding.”
Leafs defenceman Morgan Rielly said he spoke with Dubas, who quickly joined the Pittsburgh Penguins as their president of hockey operations, following the stunning change.
“I’ve probably felt that with him leaving more than I have in the past,” Rielly said. “Just part of the business.”
But not all situations and relationships are the same.
Florida Panthers head coach Paul Maurice doesn’t tend to stay in touch with former players.
“I’m not a connector or an over-communicator,” he said. “Send me a text, you’ll get an answer five days later. I don’t stay in contact with a lot of them. They’re all fine. They didn’t need me at the start. I coached them, and when I left they were fine, too.
“Actually probably a little happier.”
Seattle Kraken GM and Hall of Famer Ron Francis said players feel a level of guilt when a coach takes the fall.
“Didn’t get the job done and that’s what cost him his job,” he said. “Everybody goes into this knowing you can be traded or fired at any point.
“Nature of the beast.”
It doesn’t make any easier.
“Definitely takes a toll,” McDavid said. “But just makes you cherish those moments that you have with your teammates and your coaches all the more.”
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